GM3: Marriage and Partnerships
Relationships, marriage, partnerships; opinions on relationships; future tense plans
Relationships, marriage, partnerships; opinions on relationships; future tense plans
Relationships, marriage, partnerships; opinions on relationships; future tense plans
Q1: Write 4 sentences in German about marriage and partnerships.
Q2: Write a paragraph (40-60 words) giving your opinion on marriage and partnerships.
Q3: Translate into German: "I think marriage and partnerships is important because..."
Students often forget adjective endings. Wrong: Ich bin groß und dünn (no ending after bin). Correct: Ich bin groß und dünn — predicate adjectives have NO ending after sein/werden/bleiben. BUT: Der große Mann — attributive adjectives BEFORE nouns DO need endings.
Writing task: Write about relationships, marriage, partnerships; opinions on relationships; future tense plans.
A grade 9 answer will: use at least three tenses accurately; include complex structures (subordinate clauses, modal verbs, separable verbs); show precise grammar (cases, word order, adjective endings); express and justify opinions; include cultural knowledge about DACH countries; use a wide range of vocabulary; be well-organised with connecting words (außerdem, jedoch, trotzdem, zusammenfassend).
Mark scheme: Content (relevance and detail) + Quality of language (accuracy and range) = total marks
AO1 — Knowledge: Show understanding of Marriage and Partnerships by demonstrating accurate vocabulary and grammatical structures in the target language.
AO2 — Application: Apply your knowledge of Marriage and Partnerships to understand and produce language in listening, reading, speaking and writing contexts.
AO3 — Analysis & Evaluation: Analyse and evaluate linguistic features related to Marriage and Partnerships, demonstrating critical awareness of meaning, context and cultural references.
At GCSE level, you need vocabulary for discussing marriage, partnerships and relationships. Key terms include: die Ehe (marriage), der Ehepartner / die Ehepartnerin (spouse), heiraten (to marry), sich verloben (to get engaged), die Verlobung (the engagement), sich scheiden lassen (to get divorced), die Scheidung (the divorce), der Partner / die Partnerin (partner).
In modern Germany, many couples live together without marrying — this is called die eheähnliche Gemeinschaft or simply zusammenleben (living together). Germany introduced die eingetragene Lebenspartnerschaft (registered civil partnership) for same-sex couples in 2001, and same-sex marriage (die Ehe für alle) was legalised in 2017. Austria legalised same-sex marriage in 2019, and Switzerland followed in 2022.
When discussing relationships in the exam, use a range of tenses. Present for general statements: Viele junge Leute heiraten später (Many young people marry later). Perfect for past: Sie haben im letzten Jahr geheiratet (They got married last year). Future for plans: Wir werden nächstes Jahr heiraten (We will get married next year).
Meine Eltern haben vor zwanzig Jahren geheiratet. Sie haben eine glückliche Ehe. In Deutschland heiraten viele Leute heute später als früher.
My parents got married twenty years ago. They have a happy marriage. In Germany many people today marry later than before.
German wedding traditions are rich and varied, making excellent cultural content for the exam. A famous tradition is Polterabend — the evening before the wedding, guests smash old porcelain and ceramics outside the couple's door to bring good luck. The couple must then clean up the pieces together, symbolising teamwork. Another tradition is Baumstamm sägen, where the newlyweds saw a log together.
In German weddings, the groom traditionally carries the bride over the threshold. Guests throw coins at the couple (Münzen werfen) for prosperity. The wedding feast often features a special Hochzeitssuppe (wedding soup). In Bavaria, weddings may include traditional clothing: der Dirndl for women and die Lederhosen for men. In Austria, the Brautwaltzer (bridal waltz) is an important part of the celebration.
In Switzerland, wedding customs vary by canton. In some regions, the couple plants a tree (den Baum pflanzen) after the ceremony. The Steinstuben tradition in rural Switzerland involves friends blocking the road with stones, and the groom must pay a toll to pass — similar to the German Sträßchen ziehen (blocking the street).
Auf einem deutschen Polterabend werfen die Gäste altes Porzellan auf den Boden. Das bringt Glück für die Ehe. Am nächsten Tag ist die Hochzeit.
At a German Polterabend, guests throw old porcelain on the ground. This brings luck for the marriage. The next day is the wedding.
For the speaking and writing exams, you should be able to express and justify opinions about modern relationships. Useful structures include: Ich finde, dass... (I think that...), Meiner Meinung nach... (In my opinion...), Ich bin der Ansicht, dass... (I am of the view that...). For Higher tier, try using man sollte (one should) or es wäre besser, wenn... (it would be better if...).
Debatable topics include whether marriage is still important today: Ist die Ehe heute noch wichtig? Many young Germans think marriage is less important than commitment: Die Liebe ist wichtiger als die Ehe (Love is more important than marriage). Others believe marriage provides stability: Die Ehe gibt Sicherheit (Marriage provides security).
Statistics show that the average age of marriage in Germany has risen to around 33 for men and 31 for women. The birth rate in Germany is relatively low compared to other European countries. In the exam, quoting statistics or cultural facts can demonstrate intercultural understanding and earn higher marks.
Meiner Meinung nach ist die Ehe nicht mehr so wichtig wie früher. Viele Paare leben gerne zusammen, ohne zu heiraten. Ich finde, dass die Liebe wichtiger ist als ein Stück Papier.
In my opinion marriage is no longer as important as before. Many couples like living together without getting married. I think that love is more important than a piece of paper.
| German | English | Example Sentence |
|---|---|---|
| die Ehe | marriage | Die Ehe ist eine wichtige Entscheidung. |
| heiraten | to marry | Wir wollen nächsten Sommer heiraten. |
| sich verloben | to get engaged | Sie haben sich im April verlobt. |
| die Scheidung | divorce | Die Scheidungsrate ist in Deutschland gestiegen. |
| der Partner / die Partnerin | partner | Mein Partner ist sehr unterstützend. |
| zusammenleben | to live together | Viele Paare leben zusammen vor der Ehe. |
| die Hochzeit | wedding | Die Hochzeit war wunderschön. |
| der Polterabend | eve-of-wedding party | Am Polterabend wird Porzellan zerschlagen. |
| die Verlobung | engagement | Die Verlobung dauerte ein Jahr. |
| treu / untreu | faithful / unfaithful | In einer Beziehung muss man treu sein. |
| die Beziehung | relationship | Wir haben eine gute Beziehung. |
| der Kompromiss | compromise | In jeder Ehe braucht man Kompromisse. |
Q1: Was denkst du über die Ehe heute? Ist sie noch wichtig? Gib deine Meinung mit Gründen. (What do you think about marriage today? Is it still important? Give your opinion with reasons.)
Q2: Übersetze ins Deutsche: In Germany, many couples live together before getting married. The wedding traditions are interesting, for example the Polterabend where guests break porcelain for good luck.
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